17-09-2019 04:27 PM
17-09-2019 04:27 PM
hello and hugs @Over_whelmed , @Sally , @VCS , @Tryingmum , @Appleblossom
how are you ?? , hope you are ok my friends xxx
17-09-2019 04:37 PM
17-09-2019 04:37 PM
Had a little creative spat at the hospital today trying to get them to sort themselves out in writing a medical certificate for my son. So sick of me being patronised or talked down to or given the flick. I tossed over my shoulder how "sorry I was for them" in their poor over work.Cost me an extrta 5 bucks parking to go in person to sort all the delays going on over a week. I was naughty I had a little tap dance 30 secs worth and asked them to be competent. SO sick of my family getting the bad rap re who is capable/ functional and who is dysfunctional.
Being assertive.
18-09-2019 06:49 PM
18-09-2019 06:49 PM
Thanks Shaz51 for your thoughts - doing okay here. My Mum has just recently had surgery for a second tumour after having her first cancer diagnosis last year. This time around has not been as fraught, but it's still hard - if she doesn't stop smoking then her cancer will continue to recur (it's a major risk factor) and she may potentially end up having chemo. I am grateful however for the the care from the hospital and that they are conducting regular check ups to make sure she's okay - I am struck by the vast difference in the quality of care that she is currently receiving for her physical health issues as opposed to her mental health. I am still very upset with her psychiatrist and threatened to sue his practice the last time I spoke to them some time ago seeking help, as it strongly appears that they care very little about their patients - they certainly lacked any empathy during my interaction with them - and he only seems interested in funding his own retirement - every couple of months the psychiatrist seems to be on holidays for months at a time, and all the clinic is doing is getting the receptionist to hand over scripts to their patients. You could reasonably assume thst I'm biased - however, I note the number of adverse reviews of his practice on Google and elsewhere where others have labelled him as uncaring and only 'in it for the money'. I repeat - there is no accountability for suboptimal care in the mental health system, and it's a disgrace. But enough of the rant. Things are going as well as could be expected. My younger brother lives with my mother and helps out a little which helps.
18-09-2019 06:54 PM
18-09-2019 06:54 PM
18-09-2019 07:04 PM
18-09-2019 07:04 PM
hello @Sally and sending you lots of tender hugs my friend Hello @VCS , @Over_whelmed , @Tryingmum , @outlander , @Razzle , @Former-Member , @Sally , @Former-Member
next tuesday night we have a topic tuesday called
Topic Tuesday // When caring for parents // Tues 24 Sep, 7pm AEST
18-09-2019 07:25 PM
18-09-2019 07:25 PM
Thanks for the tag @Shaz51 I’ll jump on the Topic Tuesday thread now so I can get the reminder 👍👍
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