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Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

@soul House settlement is scheduled for tomorrow. Looking like it is actually going to go through. Take 4 and 9 weeks later.

We have already moved in just had delays to the final settlement which means we have been unable to do any repairs maintenance or modifications to the place. 

 

I have not made any firm decisions about uni yet. I have enrolled in 1 course, the only one offered in our location but I don't want to commit to anything yet as uncertain about mum inlaws health. I may need to take some time out if things go downhill 🙁

 

Darling not in a good space at the moment. Hoping after settlement is confirmed she may calm down a bit as she has been getting more anxious as it gets closer. (Based on how many times it has been put back). She is  also not happy that I have been away for the weekend (have been home by 3 both afternoons) but as usual when ever I am happy or excited about something she falls apart. Lost count of how many times she tried calling yesterday despite knowing I would be on my bike or in a class doing theory.  So again I spent the day stressing about home rather than concentrating on the task at hand. 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

LOL @Former-Member

I went with a more conventional helmet. 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

Took my bike for my first on road ride this ave, it was quite a buzz 😁😁😁😁

 

Will be slow and easy for a while though I can see. Looking forward to getting some hours up on road when Mum is available to tag along behind. 

 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

So the brain one out too @Determined ??? 

 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

PS Will be thinking of you tomorrow

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

Not sure about the brain @Former-Member but the bald head could be fun just for kicks. 

Would be interesting experiment to see how many times the grinch with flashing lights pull me over for not wearing a helmet. 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

Thanks @Former-Member

Holding my breath at the moment. If it falls over again darling is really going to fall apart. 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

@Determined   😀😀😀

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

@Determined

Crossing posts - I know you would know but clarifying anyhow.

Motorbike = 😀

Everything else = 🙏

 

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