Hi
@SimpleAsThis, just read through this thread, & wondered how you've been going. Want you to know I am thinking of you, & wishing you all the best, as I've been in a similar situation more than once & had to make various choices based on the circumstances at the time. I took into account my current situation from a health, financial, relationship, & future plans perspective, and spoke at length with my partner, doctors, & others whose input I valued (without discussing it with those who I had a fair idea would take a negative approach) prior to making a final decision.
No matter what you decide/have decided, I'd like to say that you are doing/have done the best and right thing for you, because you've looked into things & taken time to deliberate prior to coming to a conclusion. My thoughts are with you, & I support you in your decision (nomatter what) because you are doing your best. Remember to be kind to yourself, & try not to judge yourself in the future because of your decision- you are doing your best in the 'now'.
Sending you thoughts of care & support if you want them
😌Pixi
