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15-06-2019 02:22 PM
15-06-2019 02:22 PM
Re: not feeling good
@BlueBay that is disappointing re mum not coming for lunch. Don’t let it get to you. Enjoy day out with hubby. Have a good weekend.
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15-06-2019 02:54 PM
15-06-2019 02:54 PM
Re: not feeling good
Aw @BlueBay
Your mother wants to wait until the weather gets warmer - sheesh - we are only half way through June - that's pathetic and cruel -
I understand - I had the same crap from my mother - it hurts so much- being rejected is horrible -
When I moved to this unit I invited my parents for afternoon tea and it was too hot - I never asked them again - and that's what I suggest - don't ask them again and save yourself the rejection
Go out tomorrow and enjoy the time with your husband - make the most of what you have - allow the bad feelings for a short time and then shower and wash your mother right out of your hair - you don't need to have that in your life
It's really painful - I know - but that's her and you can't change that - you can choose what you want to do tomorrow
All the best with that
Dec
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15-06-2019 04:49 PM
15-06-2019 04:49 PM
Re: not feeling good
My sister @BlueBay
You are doing a lot bettereven though you can not see it , sometimes we are too close to see the changes xoxo
It's really painful - I know - but that's her and you can't change that - you can choose what you want to do tomorrow-- I agree with @Owlunar xoxo
I have been rejected soo much in my life that is has taken a long time to accept this that you can`t change your mum like I could never change my father
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15-06-2019 08:39 PM
15-06-2019 08:39 PM
Re: not feeling good
Sending love @BlueBay, hope tomorrow is a much better day
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17-06-2019 06:57 PM
17-06-2019 06:57 PM
Re: not feeling good
Hi everyone @Ali11 @Shaz51 @Owlunar @Meowmy @Battlemouse71 @Former-Member @Razzle @Zoe7 and others following
yesterday hubby and I decided to go out for a coffee then a long walk at a national park. After our long walk we drive to a strawberry farm and bought some. Then went home our dinner on slow cooker and then went to a park and beach to play with A.
Our son came down and had dinner. Both boys are going to Bali in a few weeks with a few other mates.
Tiday I worked my long shift and my back is so sore. I’m struggling tonight. Just a few extra hours on a concrete floor makes a huge difference on my back.
Tomorrow we have a funeral to go to. The man that passed away was a very close family friend. He was my sisters ex- father in law.
@Owlunar You know you’re right, I never thought that I use the forum as my daily diary.
It really helps me get the words out of my head.
Anyway I should go.
Need to take something for my back.
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17-06-2019 07:33 PM
17-06-2019 07:33 PM
Re: not feeling good
sound like a good day yesterday my sister @BlueBay
sorry to hear your back is sore tonight after today , a nice warm bath in epsoms salts is good for muscles xxx
and a good night sleep
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17-06-2019 07:35 PM
17-06-2019 07:35 PM
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@BlueBay Good stuff, nice day with hubby and little A. Hope your back get better. Well done for completing long shift at work. Have good night.
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17-06-2019 08:13 PM
17-06-2019 08:13 PM
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Yesterday sounds lovely @BlueBay How are the strawberries? Hope your back is feeling better, do you have vibram sole shoes? Those are supposed to be good if you work on concrete floors.
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17-06-2019 08:16 PM
17-06-2019 08:16 PM
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Strawberries are so sweet snd delicious @Ali11 Have never heard vibram sole shoes. Will look into it. My back is still sore.
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17-06-2019 09:29 PM
17-06-2019 09:29 PM
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Yes @BlueBay
This is a journal and your entry today was excellent - you have recorded the great outing you had and the time you spent with yous husband and A - and bought strawberries - I know the strawberries down where you are taste wonderful - really great
I sympathize with your about your back and the concrete floor - that's a toughie - ouch - I can feel it - my unit has a concrete floor - carpet sure but the concrete floor hurts you back
Tomorrow the funeral will be hard because you are a sensitive person - you will be okay though - these days funerals tend to be a celebration of life and give us time to reflect on the life of the person who has gone and be together to pay your respects - you might cry but that's a good time to release tears and I know what your father and my mother did/said about crying at funerals but they were wrong - I am saying you can cry and that's okay
Have you got a wheat pack or hot water bottle for your back - I find heat the best thing for my back pain - I hope you can sleep and wake rested for a big day tomorrow
Great entry - well done
Dec