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13-03-2024 01:45 AM
13-03-2024 01:45 AM
Holding on (to the past)
I should be asleep, but I still find myself looking at old photos of her on my phone. My life is grieving purpose.
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13-03-2024 08:09 AM
13-03-2024 08:09 AM
Re: Holding on (to the past)
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13-03-2024 10:58 AM
13-03-2024 10:58 AM
Re: Holding on (to the past)
Hi @Parzival
Grief is a curious beast, it reawakens memories, constructs scenarios and always is seen through gilded lenses. If looking at photos gives you comfort, there is nothing wrong with that. But you are a living individual who cannot remain in the past, you live, so you move forward. The past is the past, yes to be remembered fondly, but the future is all yours to make and create. So treat yourself kindly, make plans, do something you have always wanted to do.