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β03-12-2019 04:42 AM
β03-12-2019 04:42 AM
Re: Taking the plunge
@CheerBear I hope the Catt meeting went as good as could be expected yesterday. Iβm thinking (maybe ) it was hard. Sending βοΈβοΈβοΈβοΈ And π€π€π€π€. ππππlistening, if you would like to talk. Sitting with you if itβs all you can ( want ) to do right now.
Hi @BlueBay @eth @Former-Member @outlander @Gazza75 @Owlunar ππππ
βοΈβοΈππ @Former-Member Thinking of you.
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β03-12-2019 05:50 AM
β03-12-2019 05:50 AM
Re: Taking the plunge
Thank you for caring and for listening.
How are you going and how was your yesterday, if you feel like sharing.
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β03-12-2019 06:02 AM
β03-12-2019 06:02 AM
Re: Taking the plunge
Not sure if the unpredictable is dependent on whoβs on at the time @CheerBear . Even in that area, some get it, some donβt, or, donβt want to. Back to the power thing in ways, just my thoughts there though.
Lights out and sleep sounds ok ish. Itβs doing everything you can to get through. No matter how small or large. Itβs a tightrope situation, every second counts.
I think I used up my reserves yesterday with kind of friend. Shuffling masks and hiding behind them is hard. Itβs a bit like you and sib in a different kind of way. I donβt like talking negatively about her, but Iβm very much her support, and get ignored if I say anything.
I need a rick today.
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β03-12-2019 06:03 AM
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β03-12-2019 06:16 AM
β03-12-2019 06:16 AM
Re: Taking the plunge
@Former-Member πππππβοΈβοΈβοΈβοΈβοΈπππππ
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β03-12-2019 06:17 AM
β03-12-2019 06:17 AM
Re: Taking the plunge
I hear you with not wanting to talk badly of people but having a big flip side that isn't seen yet pulls at you from inside. I'm sorry things are like that with her. When you're running low/empty it can hurt and take a lot support but be ignored.
Yesterday I spent some time thinking (never a good thing haha) about what is behind that. I think for me it's a bit "too hard basket", maybe some taking me at face value, maybe some "you'll be right". I wonder if there are elements of that for you in this relationship with her. Either way, it really sucks to have important relationships lose a give and take that feels and is OK.
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β03-12-2019 06:21 AM
β03-12-2019 06:21 AM
Re: Taking the plunge
@Former-Member hope it went well enough for you yesterday. Wishing brekkie was on us for you again today.
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β03-12-2019 06:27 AM
β03-12-2019 06:27 AM
Re: Taking the plunge
Thanks @CheerBear @Maggie π
Tired after long drive yday. Trying to adjust to wintery weathrr here, only top of 10C yday. Warming up from today tho. Limited and intermittant internet here. Good to see my Dad.
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β03-12-2019 06:31 AM
β03-12-2019 06:31 AM
Re: Taking the plunge
It sounds like a rick might be better than a rock then @CheerBear π€£ππ€£π
Sounds tricky, but your psych sounds like he ( has got this ) I hope so. Any talk of respite or when it might be happening? I know the crew are a big construction, and retraumatizing is being avoided, so itβs all super tricky. Just hope it happens soon.
Iβve had all kinds of reactions with kind of friend, the thing is, itβs not all, or always bad. There are things in the relationship that are ok. Iβm learning, not always a good thing ). I expected that people had empathy having gone through struggles of their own. But itβs not the case. Iβm struggling with that, with heaps of questions like....Why, or how.