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[oceangirl]

hi @outlander 

I can relate to what you're saying sometimes having knowledge is not a good thing because sometimes you know what to expect. I know that with my medical problems and that can make me anxious at times because I know what is going to happen. I think having a open mind is really good too- I think its something that is undevalued- it shows compassion for others and that can be really healing. I think its great that you want to help other people that is great quality to have there.

I am enjoying talking to you and connecting with you and sharing our experiences and struggles. I think that is awesome because we are able to relate. Thank you for connecting, I am finding it really helpful. I am just going to try to stick to my plan and put one foot in front of the other. I know I am going to make mistakes but that is okay too. I am perfectly imperfect.

My day was not too bad- I was starting to get quite tired this afternoon but feeling a bit better now after going to the gym. How are you sweetheart?

[outlander]

i enjoy talking and connecting with you too @oceangirl it sometimes isnt easy to talk or connect with others even with similar experiences or virtually so it is rather great.
perfectly imperfect is a good way to think, we are human and we all make mistakes. we can learn from them to better ourselves though

im abit tired too, have been really busy and trying to manage but struggling abit with it all.

[MDT]

thats why you are a community guide @outlander 🙂 a fine job you are doing too btw.

Deal @oceangirl - we can start with cardio.

I did a BA (bachelor of arts) and majored in government and international relations. Basically a combo of histroy, politics, philosophy and psychology all rolled into one. Boring to some and yet interesting to others lol. I am presently involved in a start up in that area which is cool.

Appointment tomorrow should be fine. I am going to gym before hand. Cardio'd out today but can do weights there for 30 mins.

Keep us posted re lunch and what's going on for you OG

Always good to chat to you

[MDT]

@oceangirl 

[outlander]

thanks thats kind of you to say @MDT
how are you?

[MDT]

Truth @outlander

I'm not bad thanks. See my psych tomoz. Hoping to talk about family problems and how to manage it all. Also about relationships.

I am feeling a bit better after some hard cardio this afternoon so that has helped. Sister has been a bit shitty to me today but then she has her reasons.

I have an interview on Friday which I'm not nervous about. Just bored with idk. If that makes sense.

How are you these days?

[outlander]

hope your psych help you and can sort through some of your thoughts and emotions @MDT
yeah that makes sense, i guess sometimes interviews and job seeking get abit repetitive and abit 'whatever happens, happens' fingers crossed for a good outcome for this one though.

im flatchat atm, out the door by 8 most days and not getting home till 730/8/9 depending on the day so havent had much chance to do my ususal things

[MDT]

What are you doing atm @outlander that has you out and about so much?

[outlander]

school holidays @MDT i have the kids basically every day and in between having them i need to fit in the horses, and appointments and housework and the things with pop as well

[MDT]

Ah I see @outlander
I forgot it was holidays. I always forget. I thought you had found a full time job or similar is all.
Do you care for your sisters as well or is that just during holidays?