Yarning Space - Check in coffee and chat

[tyme]

Good on her @ArraDreaming . And good on you for being there for her. 

I'm hopping off now, but will chat another time 

gnight @ArraDreaming @Till23 

[ArraDreaming]

Yeah I think she will be, @tyme I can’t share much but what I will say is I’m so proud of her… it was her decision to take her baby and get away from where they were and away from a particular verydangerous person and situation and get help
Hence the moving around so much until they find a place for her to live and can go through some legal things…
she made that call herself
In the past she would of just bought into it and stayed

[tyme]

Hope she's okay @ArraDreaming 

You're an amazing big bro. I still remember her when she was in high school and asked you to go to her graduation.

[Till23]

Crikey, that's hard moving so frequently @ArraDreaming and also just the not knowing of how long you are going to be at a place.

That sounds like a nice idea to go and visit her on your lunch break

[ArraDreaming]

Yeah Till, she is linked in but nothing is permanent, she’s been in 3 places in 10 days
she doesn’t drive
we were messaging tonight and she’s staying about 10 mins from us… I drove past her current place on the way to work every day
I was thinking I might go pick her up on my lunch break tomorrow

[Till23]

Wow, that sounds like a serious accident @ArraDreaming 

Sounds like you have worked hard to get back to a physical job 4 days a week

Sorry to here your sister is on the move, especially with a young child

I'm sure you discussed this with her, but are there any services around you that can provide some accommodation for her and her child

[ArraDreaming]

Haven’t seen him since before we had the baby @tyme that was always the plan though, we would need time when we had bubs just the 6 of us… big adjustment for our kids and then we just wouldnt have the capacity to do it all, which is sad cause in our culture we raise each others kids, but theres no way we would manage with another 1 year old here (also btw guess who is 2 VERY soon???)

4 is a lot. 4+ 1 who would be struggling without his mum and all that… 
But now she’s in emergency accommodation and has been in 3 different places in 10 days, 

[tyme]

Has your nephew been staying with you much @ArraDreaming ?

[ArraDreaming]

Mountain bike accident Till, I won’t go into the details but all I will say is I thought I died
And I also don’t know how I am walking today
Well…: she did, about 25 mins from us.
Currently transient with her toddler.
Thats why she was messaging me

[ArraDreaming]

I just realised that almost sounded like the rainbow colours
Turns out when your in a “leadership roll” (no thanks don’t call me that)
You sometimes have to look at funny things that don’t make sense and try to make sure they make sense so you can explain it to the team
Anyway, something to with ordering and auditing equipment
Something for facilities that they wanted me to go over
Idk